If You Really Knew Me
Join Ben and Kim as they discuss ways to improve personal and professional relationships with some help from the Enneagram. A personality tool about motivations rather than behavior. They will share insights on how to use this tool all while keeping Jesus at the center of your life.
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Episodes
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Episiode 30 - Music to My Ears (with special guests Mike Donehey, Micah Tyler, Tyler Roberts)
Friday, September 15, 2023
You love their music, now learn more about their heart. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim are joined by special guests and Contemporary Christian singers Mike Donehey from Tenth Avenue North,
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Episiode 29 - Reflections of God - Hope of God
Friday, August 18, 2023
It’s been said humans can survive without food, water and even air for a short period of time, but not without hope. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss God’s hope and how it can be reflected in each personal...
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Episiode 28 - Meet the band CAIN
Friday, July 21, 2023
Meet the band CAIN! Check out this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with the members of CAIN and learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives all while keeping their focus on Jesus.
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Episiode 27 - Reflections of God – Love of God
Friday, June 16, 2023
How can each of us learn to reflect the love of God better? One of the ways is learning from each other.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how each Enneagram type is wired to show God’s love when they are align...
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Episiode 26 - Reflections of God – Goodness of God
Friday, May 19, 2023
In this sometimes, uncertain world, it helps to have daily reminders of God’s goodness. If we look, we can see God’s goodness all around us in what and WHO He has created.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how ...
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Episode 25 – Meet The Bridge Staff (Part 2)
Friday, February 17, 2023
We invite you to meet The Bridge staff and hear our hearts about work culture and showing grace to others.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with fellow staff members for Part 2 of Enneagram-informed teams.
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Episode 24 – Meet The Bridge Staff (Part 1)
Friday, January 20, 2023
If you work with a group of people day-in and day-out, you know how important it is to get along. At The Bridge, we take this to heart.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge to di...
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Episode 23 – Leadership
Friday, December 16, 2022
If you are a leader, you realize the importance of understanding the people on your team. So, what makes a strong leader OR a great work culture?In this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim speak to three special guests who lead...
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Episode 22 – Finding Your Purpose
Friday, November 18, 2022
Many people spend their lives trying to figure out their purpose. They may even ask, “Why on earth am I here” or, “What am I supposed to do with my life?”. In this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me,
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Episode 21 – Taking Care of You
Friday, October 21, 2022
Most of us are so busy focusing on taking care of others that we tend to put ourselves last. We may even think it’s prideful to take care of ourselves. Ben and Kim share self-care tips AND encouraging scriptures for each Enneagram type.Remember,
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Episode 20 – Should Christians use the Enneagram?
Friday, September 30, 2022
You may not be sure what the Enneagram is all about and you may have questions about its use. This week’s episode, join Ben and Kim as they chat with special guest Tyler Zach, a pastor, author, AND Enneagram coach about the origins of the Enneagram and...
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Episode 19 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 2 - SUBTYPES
Friday, August 19, 2022
God’s fingerprint for each of us is SO unique and wonderful. Learn more about it on this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim dive deeper into how people of the same Enneagram type can look different from one another based on ...
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Episode 18 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 1 - WINGS
Friday, July 15, 2022
Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype.
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Episode 17 – Social Butterflies and Pets
Friday, June 17, 2022
Social butterflies and Dogs. What do these two things have in common? ….nothing LOL. Except for the fact that these topics will hopefully bring a smile to your face today.Life is crazy so having fun and sometimes being silly is a great stress reliever.
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Episode 16 – Using the Enneagram to Share Your Faith
Friday, May 20, 2022
We all have family and friends that we have been praying for to receive Christ as their Savior, but sometimes sharing your faith is hard and you’re not sure what to say. Check out this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim disc...
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Episode 15 - Navigating Grief - Part 2
Friday, April 15, 2022
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer a...
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Episode 14 - Navigating Grief - Part 1
Friday, April 15, 2022
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer a...
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Episode 13 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 2 - Virtues
Friday, February 18, 2022
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it,
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Episode 12 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 1 - Levels of Alignment with The Gospel
Friday, January 21, 2022
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version,
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Episode 11 - Enneagram Stances - Our Default Mode
Friday, December 10, 2021
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It’s like our default mode. On most episodes,
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Episode 10 - The Enneagram at Work
Friday, November 12, 2021
In life, we all want to be known and understood. This is also very important in our jobs as well. Check out this week’s podcast episode of If you Really Knew me as Ben and Kim discuss Enneagram in the workplace.
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Episode 9 - Learning to Laugh at Ourselves
Friday, October 8, 2021
Need a good laugh and a stress reliever? Check out this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me. Ben and Kim will share funny stories of how each of the 9 Enneagram personality types may handle grocery shopping, driving, and even leading worship.
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Episode 8 - Connect with Your Children on a Deeper Level with Enneagram
Friday, August 13, 2021
How can the Enneagram help you communicate better with your kids? If you are not supposed to "Type" others, how can you narrow down your kid's type? In this episode, hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells discuss ways you can narrow down your child's type a...
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Episode 7 - Communicating Better with Your Spouse
Friday, July 9, 2021
We are ALL in some type of relationship whether it be married, engaged, dating or friendship. Since communication is key in relationships, this next episode of If You Really Knew Me takes a look at each personality type’s communication style.
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Episode 6 - Laughter
Friday, May 14, 2021
They say laughter is medicine for the soul. And learning to laugh at yourself is a great place to start. In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share a fun take on some real-life scenarios. For example,
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Episode 5 - Seven Steps of Forgiveness
Friday, April 9, 2021
Has someone ever wronged you and you just can’t seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person. On this podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben & Kim talk about the 7 steps of forgiveness and how it’s affected by ...
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Episode 4 - A Little Grace, Please
Friday, March 12, 2021
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how we can use the enneagram to find grace for ourselves and others. This topic is very timely for the world we are living in, but also CRUCIAL to our spiritual walk.
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Episode 3 - Our Behavior In Time Of Stress and Security
Friday, February 12, 2021
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how the Enneagram can be used to help us in times of STRESS and SECURITY. Ben goes through each type and explains how we are wired for behavior in our type, and then with awareness,
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Episode 2 - The Enneagram Explained
Friday, January 15, 2021
In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how the Enneagram works and why it can be important to us. The Enneagram is different from other personality typing systems as it is based on our MOTIVATIONS as opposed to just our behaviors.
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Episode 1 - Introducing If You Really Knew Me
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
The Enneagram is a tool you can use to have richer relationships. Ben Sorrells and Kim Willey are excited to discuss connecting better in all of our personal and professional relationships. You’ll learn more about who’s inside based on your motivations...
