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If You Really Knew Me

Join Ben and Kim as they discuss ways to improve personal and professional relationships with some help from the Enneagram. A personality tool about motivations rather than behavior. They will share insights on how to use this tool all while keeping Jesus at the center of your life.

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Episodes

  • Episode 23 – Meet The Bridge Staff (Part 1)

    Friday, January 20th, 2023

    1 hour 23 minutes

    If you work with a group of people day-in and day-out, you know how important it is to get along. At The Bridge, we take this to heart.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge to di...

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  • Episode 23 – Leadership

    Friday, December 16th, 2022

    53 minutes

    If you are a leader, you realize the importance of understanding the people on your team. So, what makes a strong leader OR a great work culture?In this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim speak to three special guests who lead...

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  • Episode 22 – Finding Your Purpose

    Friday, November 18th, 2022

    32 minutes

    Many people spend their lives trying to figure out their purpose. They may even ask, “Why on earth am I here” or, “What am I supposed to do with my life?”. In this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me,

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  • Episode 21 – Taking Care of You

    Friday, October 21st, 2022

    34 minutes

    Most of us are so busy focusing on taking care of others that we tend to put ourselves last. We may even think it’s prideful to take care of ourselves. Ben and Kim share self-care tips AND encouraging scriptures for each Enneagram type.Remember,

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  • Episode 20 – Should Christians use the Enneagram?

    Friday, September 30th, 2022

    39 minutes

    You may not be sure what the Enneagram is all about and you may have questions about its use. This week’s episode, join Ben and Kim as they chat with special guest Tyler Zach, a pastor, author, AND Enneagram coach about the origins of the Enneagram and...

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  • Episode 19 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 2 - SUBTYPES

    Friday, August 19th, 2022

    59 minutes

    God’s fingerprint for each of us is SO unique and wonderful. Learn more about it on this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim dive deeper into how people of the same Enneagram type can look different from one another based on ...

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  • Episode 18 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 1 - WINGS

    Friday, July 15th, 2022

    42 minutes

    Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype.

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  • Episode 17 – Social Butterflies and Pets

    Friday, June 17th, 2022

    12 minutes

    Social butterflies and Dogs. What do these two things have in common? ….nothing LOL. Except for the fact that these topics will hopefully bring a smile to your face today.Life is crazy so having fun and sometimes being silly is a great stress reliever.

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  • Episode 16 – Using the Enneagram to Share Your Faith

    Friday, May 20th, 2022

    We all have family and friends that we have been praying for to receive Christ as their Savior, but sometimes sharing your faith is hard and you’re not sure what to say. Check out this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim disc...

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  • Episode 15 - Navigating Grief - Part 2

    Friday, April 15th, 2022

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer a...

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  • Episode 14 - Navigating Grief - Part 1

    Friday, April 15th, 2022

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer a...

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  • Episode 13 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 2 - Virtues

    Friday, February 18th, 2022

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it,

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  • Episode 12 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 1 - Levels of Alignment with The Gospel

    Friday, January 21st, 2022

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version,

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  • Episode 11 - Enneagram Stances - Our Default Mode

    Friday, December 10th, 2021

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It’s like our default mode. On most episodes,

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  • Episode 10 - The Enneagram at Work

    Friday, November 12th, 2021

    In life, we all want to be known and understood. This is also very important in our jobs as well. Check out this week’s podcast episode of If you Really Knew me as Ben and Kim discuss Enneagram in the workplace.

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  • Episode 9 - Learning to Laugh at Ourselves

    Friday, October 8th, 2021

    Need a good laugh and a stress reliever? Check out this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me. Ben and Kim will share funny stories of how each of the 9 Enneagram personality types may handle grocery shopping, driving, and even leading worship.

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  • Episode 8 - Connect with Your Children on a Deeper Level with Enneagram

    Friday, August 13th, 2021

    How can the Enneagram help you communicate better with your kids? If you are not supposed to "Type" others, how can you narrow down your kid's type? In this episode, hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells discuss ways you can narrow down your child's type a...

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  • Episode 7 - Communicating Better with Your Spouse

    Friday, July 9th, 2021

    We are ALL in some type of relationship whether it be married, engaged, dating or friendship. Since communication is key in relationships, this next episode of If You Really Knew Me takes a look at each personality type’s communication style.

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  • Episode 6 - Laughter

    Friday, May 14th, 2021

    They say laughter is medicine for the soul. And learning to laugh at yourself is a great place to start. In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share a fun take on some real-life scenarios. For example,

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  • Episode 5 - Seven Steps of Forgiveness

    Friday, April 9th, 2021

    Has someone ever wronged you and you just can’t seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person. On this podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben & Kim talk about the 7 steps of forgiveness and how it’s affected by ...

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  • Episode 4 - A Little Grace, Please

    Friday, March 12th, 2021

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how we can use the enneagram to find grace for ourselves and others. This topic is very timely for the world we are living in, but also CRUCIAL to our spiritual walk.

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  • Episode 3 - Our Behavior In Time Of Stress and Security

    Friday, February 12th, 2021

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how the Enneagram can be used to help us in times of STRESS and SECURITY. Ben goes through each type and explains how we are wired for behavior in our type, and then with awareness,

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  • Episode 2 - The Enneagram Explained

    Friday, January 15th, 2021

    In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss how the Enneagram works and why it can be important to us. The Enneagram is different from other personality typing systems as it is based on our MOTIVATIONS as opposed to just our behaviors.

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  • Episode 1 - Introducing If You Really Knew Me

    Wednesday, December 23rd, 2020

    The Enneagram is a tool you can use to have richer relationships. Ben Sorrells and Kim Willey are excited to discuss connecting better in all of our personal and professional relationships. You’ll learn more about who’s inside based on your motivations...

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